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The 3 Pillars of (Physical) Male Attractiveness
What I wish someone had told me ten years ago.
Let me be clear. Physical attractiveness covers a broad spectrum, and I’ve certainly met enough people to know that it’s not as cut and dry as Hollywood wants us to believe.
As they say, “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” and it certainly comes in all shapes, sizes, and colors.
Now that that’s out of the way. Congratulations on going the extra mile to work on your own outward aesthetic. Chances are you are on your own self-improvement journey, and I commend you for that. My only hope is that I can share some of my own experience to help guide you in your’s.
Through enough trial and error, I’ve come to realize that, among the endless fashion, grooming and style advice that exists for men, there are just three essential pillars to physical attractiveness. These are fairly universal and, at the very least, will appeal to the majority of people regardless of background.
I have listed them down below in order of importance and difficulty, from most important and most challenging to least important and least challenging.
These are things which I wish I had known when I was much younger that definitely would have saved me valuable time, money, energy, and stress.
